Women and status

Speaking of women, there are many things that followed both the problems and the beauty behind it all. Women and everyday is an image of perfection that always wanted to accomplish. It is said that, because she always wanted to be the best after so good, in many ways, of course. Especially the problem of physical appearance, not only young and even middle-aged woman who had not even want to miss affairs concerning appearance.
Many differences between men and women adorn, especially the problem status.Certain women who are sensitive when asked the status issue, will certainly be a frightening specter when people incessantly ask about the status. Status here is mainly a problem or before a married woman. Irony is not it, when the affairs that one, is a private matter involving a person who only the woman herself who will feel it.
These case studies suggested that many women feel at risk when a settled question, "is married yet?" Or "when married?". For a certain woman does not become a problem, but many women who make these questions a problem, especially if it deals with age.
Life in a village in general, have a tradition that a woman who was a teenager (age at menstruation is already out, red), usually 15 years of age. In generally, in certain villages that age are obliged to get married on the grounds he or pamali taboo virgin baligh age was not married. In fact, they (villagers, red) did not hesitate to say that an unmarried at that age as Old Virgin. However, there are positive things that can be understood from a very early marriage is. Parents are very worried about the old days of adultery or a pregnancy outside of marriage. So no wonder parents in droves old married daughter who has reached adolescence.
Unlike the case, on life in the city in general, which might have minded a more modern society and the women even more than the career-minded focus on a very early marriage. Also, the things that parents feared the old days have been very ignored ie an association that is free, freesex example, has become a common practice. So that has become a common sight and can be found anywhere, when there are a couple who feel very happy with her children but without passing a bond of marriage. This is exactly, maybe that makes one trigger rate of HIV disease AIDS is increasing in Indonesia. Although it is not only free sex which can trigger the disease, but there are many other causes.
Back to the problem of the status of women, while women have reached the age of 25 years even more, may have reached the age of 40 years still has not been married.So back into the gossip age people in general, but if addressed wisely certainly the women with that age have a strong reason why he has not made marriage too. For example, still want to pursue a career, there is no fee for marriage, because marriage today is no longer the easy stuff, but has become an expensive item. To administer it only in the hundreds of thousands of dollars has not cost others. In addition, one common reason is the absence of prospective groom dreams. For that a marriage has not happened too, when talking about marriage must speak also issue the appropriate time specified the Creator when a woman will marry. So in fact anyone who questioned the status of these, usually the mempersalahkannya is society where the woman's shelter, impact also question the status of an issue for her, because it has repeatedly asked the same problems as a result of stress triggers mind these women.
What about his fate with a woman who has experienced marriage, but failed due to a case, a greeting was greeted them as widows. Regarding the greeting, usually a lot more negatives than positives, because a woman is more risky as the news hit that does not wear. Even the woman's behavior will be highly considered. Certainly not a desire when the woman becomes a widow. For that, go back into a scenario of God's affairs.
For the women discussed in this paper, patience is key, even though it was often to be patient, also a no less important is the horse wearing goggles to address the problem of the status of women. Regarding the questions that no end was, indeed something to do that people in general have never been satisfied before it reaches its climax. But life in the world would never reach its climax, because man will reach the climax of a life, when the man was not breathing anymore.